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Post by puffy on May 25, 2021 11:53:21 GMT -5
I haven't been here in a while. I've been depressed beyond words..My wife got sick and died.She was in the hospital for 6 weeks before she passed.She was my soul mate,My best friend,My main reason for living..My life will never be the same..I will be thinking of her when I take my last breath.This is something I never thought I would go through..I can't even begin to explain how I feel..So many things remind me of her..It really hurts.I'm trying to go on a day at a time.I hope to be here more often now.
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Post by daveinlax on May 25, 2021 12:11:47 GMT -5
I can’t imagine the grief and loss you are going through. Sending you my best wishes. RIP
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Post by briarbuck on May 25, 2021 12:48:24 GMT -5
Uuuugh. Can feel your pain in your post. I am so sorry for your loss. Words are not enough. Prayers
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Post by bigwoolie on May 25, 2021 12:55:14 GMT -5
I cannot even imagine losing Shweetie, I ache with you at your pain and loss. Thoughts and prayers, my friend.
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Post by pepesdad1 on May 25, 2021 13:13:42 GMT -5
So sorry, Larry...can't imagine what you are going through. Prayers for your sanity and peace for your soul, brother.
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Post by Deleted on May 25, 2021 13:25:52 GMT -5
My deepest condolences, Larry. Prayers for you.
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Post by peteguy on May 25, 2021 14:57:51 GMT -5
So sorry  . Post here all you want, even if it is just to vent off some sadness. We will be here whenever you are. |
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Post by taiguy66 on May 25, 2021 15:16:57 GMT -5
Very sorry to hear about your loss Larry.
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Post by Goldbrick on May 25, 2021 15:22:26 GMT -5
Your words felt like ice water in my face; the shock was that intense. You posted of her many times and your lifestyle seemed much like so many folks our age share.
I can only guess of the emptiness you feel ,but please know that we are all here for you, and as for myself, I'm only a PM away.
Prayers sent, Larry
God bless, Herb.
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Post by Scott W on May 25, 2021 15:32:20 GMT -5
Larry, prayers for you that each day might get slightly better than the last and that you can keep one foot in front of the other in dealing with this.
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Post by fadingdaylight on May 25, 2021 15:53:27 GMT -5
I can't imagine how difficult that has to be sir, I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm also very glad to see that you are doing your best to remain strong.
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Post by terrapinflyer on May 25, 2021 16:31:13 GMT -5
I have no words, but you are in my thoughts.
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Post by Gandalf on May 25, 2021 17:33:04 GMT -5
You are in my thoughts and prays.
Remember you have friends here.
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Post by zambini on May 25, 2021 17:51:56 GMT -5
I'm really sorry to hear this @ . My condolences to you. |
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Post by trailboss on May 25, 2021 19:00:43 GMT -5
Larry,
Through your posts over the years, I have gleaned that she was quite an incredible woman, and that you love her dearly. I cannot imagine the heartbreak that you have encountered at the terrible loss of someone so special. This week I fly out to California to take a leisurely drive back with my wife as she has been caring for a terminally ill sister.
Your words inform me on not taking things for granted, and I really need to make the most of it and dote on her as we will visit some special places with great memories. So, I thank you for your words that really strike a chord about the specialness of people in our lives, the brevity of life, and the need to express ourselves in that regard to our spouse.
I wanted to call when Brad told us of the loss, but I wanted to give you time. In due time, call me and we can chat when you feel up to it.
Warmest Regards, brother.
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Post by Yohanan on May 25, 2021 20:02:27 GMT -5
My Condolences to you on the loss of your wife. I'm glad you are posting again, You've been missed.
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Post by toshtego on May 25, 2021 20:33:38 GMT -5
Larry, I am so sorry for your loss. That is just shattering.
For what it worth, you have friends here who care about you so stay in touch if you can. We feel your grief.
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Post by Scott W on May 25, 2021 20:44:04 GMT -5
You are in my thoughts and prays. Remember you have friends here. You sure do Larry |
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Post by Professor S. on May 25, 2021 20:51:30 GMT -5
I'm so sorry, Larry. I don't have words, and can't imagine the pain of your loss. I nearly lost my wife once. The horror of it haunts me a decade later and helps me look for ways to be grateful daily for the gift and blessing she is.
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Post by Silver on May 25, 2021 21:21:56 GMT -5
Larry, I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers and best wishes for you and your family.
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Post by urbino on May 25, 2021 23:23:50 GMT -5
Sending all the peace and strength I can muster to you and your family, Larry. Hang in there. Like you said, one day at a time.
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Post by kbareit on May 26, 2021 6:10:33 GMT -5
Sorry to hear such sad news Larry. I hope over time you can feel better.
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Post by sparks on May 26, 2021 8:56:14 GMT -5
Larry, so sorry for your loss. You are for sure among friends here. Don't hesitate to reach out.
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Post by puffy on May 26, 2021 15:55:41 GMT -5
I sincerely from the bottom of my heart thank each of you for your kind thoughts and words..I feel like my life has been turned upside down..For almost 60 years we went places together,and did things together..Now she's not here with mt..It hurts beyond what words can say..A good many of my neighbors have been through this they are helping me.I'm thankful for that.They tell me that it will never be the same but I will make it..At the worst time of my life you are here for me..I sincerely thank you for that.
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Post by pepesdad1 on May 26, 2021 16:19:40 GMT -5
Please feel free to contact me by pm, should you wish to have a shoulder to lean on...I'm sure the others feel the same way.
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Post by instymp on May 26, 2021 17:22:04 GMT -5
A day at a time.
Can't imagine what you are going through, but time will help.
Best to you.
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Post by urbino on May 26, 2021 22:37:58 GMT -5
I sincerely from the bottom of my heart thank each of you for your kind thoughts and words..I feel like my life has been turned upside down..For almost 60 years we went places together,and did things together..Now she's not here with mt..It hurts beyond what words can say..A good many of my neighbors have been through this they are helping me.I'm thankful for that.They tell me that it will never be the same but I will make it..At the worst time of my life you are here for me..I sincerely thank you for that. The one thing we know for sure about life is things always change, sooner or later. You're going through a big, unhappy change. But the way you're feeling right now, that's going to change, too. Everything's temporary. Including the bad stuff. |
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Post by papipeguy on May 27, 2021 20:56:56 GMT -5
Larry. my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I lost my wife 3 years ago and the emptiness is still with me. Time does heal but it takes a long time. The main thing is to continue living. Your family and friends depend on you to do so. The pain will subside but the memories are to be cherished. Keep moving forward as best you can.
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Post by Ronv69 on May 27, 2021 21:53:02 GMT -5
Larry, I am so sorry for your loss. It took me a couple of days to reply because I couldn't see after reading your post. This is the only thing I am afraid of and I can't begin to imagine how you feel. You have all our support and prayers. I hope that things begin to look brighter for you.
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Post by CrustyCat on May 30, 2021 0:44:30 GMT -5
Larry, sorry for your loss. I can't imagine going through what you are right now. Things can only get better.
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