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Post by don on Sept 28, 2023 17:28:07 GMT -5
Much appreciated guys, he is one of the good ones, like all of us Well, most of us. They know who they are. Hey! I can read, you know….
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Post by Scott W on Feb 29, 2024 13:48:36 GMT -5
I know Ive been gone a while but here is an update:
His liver is more than 50% tumor right now and the doctors have stopped treatment. He has a few weeks or so left. I wish I could fix this but its not in anyone’s hands anymore, i just hope he goes without pain.
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Post by oldcajun123 on Feb 29, 2024 15:05:53 GMT -5
![oldcdgr](//storage.forums.net/6447321/images/juvLHSbPyjgJlrDFxGym.gif) You’re a good man Scott, he appreciates your presence more than you ever will know I Garronte!
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Post by urbino on Feb 29, 2024 17:15:35 GMT -5
I know Ive been gone a while but here is an update: His liver is more than 50% tumor right now and the doctors have stopped treatment. He has a few weeks or so left. I wish I could fix this but its not in anyone’s hands anymore, i just hope he goes without pain. Sorry to hear that. There's a saying I can't use here or I would've used it before, but it starts with an "F" and ends with "cancer". Best wishes to you and him.
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Post by Scott W on Feb 29, 2024 22:12:42 GMT -5
I know Ive been gone a while but here is an update: His liver is more than 50% tumor right now and the doctors have stopped treatment. He has a few weeks or so left. I wish I could fix this but its not in anyone’s hands anymore, i just hope he goes without pain. Sorry to hear that. There's a saying I can't use here or I would've used it before, but it starts with an "F" and ends with "cancer". Best wishes to you and him. I use the same saying myself. I leave for Japan in 5 weeks and my fear is that he will pass when I am halfway around the world. I am trying to see him before I leave. I did see him a few weeks ago for a wonderful lunch and daytime visit hosted by his Uncle in New York who I have know for 20 plus years.
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Post by Ronv69 on Feb 29, 2024 23:19:15 GMT -5
You're a good man Scott. I am so sorry you are losing your friend. I just hope I have someone like you when my time comes.
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Post by trailboss on Feb 29, 2024 23:26:31 GMT -5
Sorry to hear this, he put up a good fight…. Having good friends at times like this is priceless to him.
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Post by urbino on Mar 1, 2024 0:45:41 GMT -5
You're a good man Scott. I am so sorry you are losing your friend. I just hope I have someone like you when my time comes. I'll come down and see you, you old buzzard.
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Post by Scott W on Mar 1, 2024 11:20:49 GMT -5
You're a good man Scott. I am so sorry you are losing your friend. I just hope I have someone like you when my time comes. Thank you Ron, I appreciate that very much
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Post by toshtego on Mar 1, 2024 11:50:40 GMT -5
Scott, Adding your friend Brad to my list of those for whom support is given.
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Post by Scott W on Mar 1, 2024 12:33:34 GMT -5
Scott, Adding your friend Brad to my list of those for whom support is given. Thank you John and you too are on my list of good people I know that I say an extra prayer for.
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Post by Ronv69 on Mar 1, 2024 20:59:14 GMT -5
You're a good man Scott. I am so sorry you are losing your friend. I just hope I have someone like you when my time comes. I'll come down and see you, you old buzzard. You can smoke your pipe while you watch me die? Thanks! 😁
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Post by urbino on Mar 1, 2024 21:04:42 GMT -5
I'll come down and see you, you old buzzard. You can smoke your pipe while you watch me die? Thanks! 😁 As if. You're too mean to die.
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Post by Ronv69 on Mar 1, 2024 21:06:25 GMT -5
You can smoke your pipe while you watch me die? Thanks! 😁 As if. You're too mean to die. I'm not really.
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Post by urbino on Mar 1, 2024 21:20:23 GMT -5
As if. You're too mean to die. I'm not really. I was just funnin' you. It's a thing we say around my neck of the woods.
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Post by Ronv69 on Mar 1, 2024 21:30:29 GMT -5
I was just funnin' you. It's a thing we say around my neck of the woods. I know. Bless your heart. 😉
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Post by Goldbrick on Mar 13, 2024 20:09:18 GMT -5
In your thread I'm reminded so much of our brother, Darktater, of the loss to his family, this forum, and my own personal loss of his friendship. I know the emptiness you must feel in being powerless to change his outcome, but think instead of the value your friendship holds for him and his family, and the peace that brings to him
If I can help you in any way, I'm only a P.M. away.
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Post by trailboss on Mar 13, 2024 20:50:53 GMT -5
If you can make the trip with him to the cabin, may I suggest the great outdoors video with John Candy?
A respite from the troubles he is facing.
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Post by urbino on Mar 13, 2024 21:02:05 GMT -5
In your thread I'm reminded so much of our brother, Darktater, of the loss to his family, this forum, and my own personal loss of his friendship. I know the emptiness you must feel in being powerless to change his outcome, but think instead of the value your friendship holds for him and his family, and the peace that brings to him If I can help you in any way, I'm only a P.M. away. You're a good egg, Herb.
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Post by Scott W on Mar 13, 2024 23:50:54 GMT -5
In your thread I'm reminded so much of our brother, Darktater, of the loss to his family, this forum, and my own personal loss of his friendship. I know the emptiness you must feel in being powerless to change his outcome, but think instead of the value your friendship holds for him and his family, and the peace that brings to him If I can help you in any way, I'm only a P.M. away. Thank you Herb for the kind words. Likewise, please feel free to reach out as I know you are also going through a loss.
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Post by Scott W on Mar 13, 2024 23:52:00 GMT -5
If you can make the trip with him to the cabin, may I suggest the great outdoors video with John Candy? A respite from the troubles he is facing. We watch it everytime we are there. The DVD gets played daily as we sit and shoot the s***. My boy watches it with me when he comes up too.
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Post by Scott W on Apr 22, 2024 19:11:27 GMT -5
Just an update, all treatments have been stopped, nothing left to do. He is on a daily diet of oxys and morphine and in a lot of pain. I got a text from him on Saturday saying “meet me at the cabin on Friday”. He is flying up, not sure how but he is. I will be meeting him Friday after work and spending what will likely be out last weekend at the cabin together. I am very grateful to have this opportunity. I think it would be a good time to talk about all the stuff we are always too busy to talk about
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Post by urbino on Apr 22, 2024 20:03:42 GMT -5
Just an update, all treatments have been stopped, nothing left to do. He is on a daily diet of oxys and morphine and in a lot of pain. I got a text from him on Saturday saying “meet me at the cabin on Friday”. He is flying up, not sure how but he is. I will be meeting him Friday after work and spending what will likely be out last weekend at the cabin together. I am very grateful to have this opportunity. I think it would be a good time to talk about all the stuff we are always too busy to talk about I hope you two have a wonderful visit, Scott. I'm glad you get to have it.
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Post by Plainsman on Apr 22, 2024 20:15:37 GMT -5
Very hard, I know. Thoughts and prayers are with you both.
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Post by trailboss on Apr 22, 2024 20:32:16 GMT -5
A member of our pipe club had to leave early from our last meeting, his father sustained a head injury that caused him to lose his life. 3 recipients were blessed from the donations of his organs. The fine tribute by his son left me misty eyed…
Lost my supervisor yesterday from way back when… best boss I ever had and he set the bar on excellence in management, a compassionate man with a heart of gold.
We are losing some great people, Scott, am so happy that your daughter has rebounded after such a serious brush… prayers for you as you minister to such a dear friend…. Life is so fragile.
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Post by Ronv69 on Apr 22, 2024 20:55:33 GMT -5
While we are asking for prayers, my neice Barbara in Louisiana was just moved to hospice, though I think she thinks it's a nursing home. She's 70, diabetes and no legs. She has a good attitude and faith. Y'all prayed for her about 3 years ago and she recover. This time everything inside is eaten up. Doctors can't help. Please pray for her to have peace and little pain. Thanks.
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Post by urbino on Apr 22, 2024 20:58:02 GMT -5
While we are asking for prayers, my neice Barbara in Louisiana was just moved to hospice, though I think she thinks it's a nursing home. She's 70, diabetes and no legs. She has a good attitude and faith. Y'all prayed for her about 3 years ago and she recover. This time everything inside is eaten up. Doctors can't help. Please pray for her to have peace and little pain. Thanks. Consider it done.
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Post by trailboss on Apr 22, 2024 21:06:05 GMT -5
Will do, Ron...May the father of all mercies comfort her.
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Post by Ronv69 on Apr 22, 2024 21:08:42 GMT -5
Thanks guys.
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Post by Silver on Apr 22, 2024 21:09:33 GMT -5
Prayers sent for all.
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