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Post by puffy on Mar 26, 2016 22:27:00 GMT -5
Not here but on other forums folks post that they just started smoking pipes.They ask questions about it.I'm very glad to help them if I can.The more pipe smokers we have the better.Not just for today but for the future of pipe smoking.Most of us probably started smoking back when it was harder to learn because there were no pipe smoking forums for us to get help..Then there's another type of poster.They've been smoking for 2 months and they think they have the world by the balls.They think they already know everything there is to know about it,and they through names around as if they really do..For them I have nothing but silence because they piss me off.
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Post by Darin on Mar 26, 2016 23:29:09 GMT -5
I here you, . The internet and it's anonymity provide the backdrop for this when, in person, it would be evident. Age also plays a role ... lots of younger smokers emerging for reasons other than true enjoyment of the tobacco. Posers, you might say.
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Post by sparks on Mar 27, 2016 6:21:20 GMT -5
Interesting topic. While I don't disagree that the "posers" and "know it all's" are annoying, I'm often shocked at how dismissive the "old guard" is of newer pipe smokers. There are these little groups of old school pipe smokers all around the internet that believe that anyone that has a beard, or wears a flannel shirt and smokes a pipe is a "hipster". I'm actually saddened by the tendency to throw around the "hipster" label and even more disturbed by the willingness of people to judge or discount others based simply on their look or clothing style.
While there will always be "posers" in any hobby or group of people, if we can turn 1 of them into a true pipe smoker, we are ahead of the game. I have heard people comment on the decreasing popularity of forums compared to Facebook and YouTube. It's true and the reason is simple. Forums for the most part, are filled with old school, ivory tower pipe smokers that think that anything outside of their defined norm doesn't belong.
Well, all of those people outside of the norm are the ones that will carry on the pipe smoking torch and eventually the ivory towers will be empty.
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Post by papipeguy on Mar 27, 2016 8:38:36 GMT -5
I always get a kick out of the newbie/experts and their take on pipes and blends. I find it entertaining and every once in a while I pick up something new from them. It seems that I learn something every day from the forums so this old dog is not above learning new tricks. I've helped many new pipers choose pipes and blends while hanging out at the B&M. To me, there's nothing like passing along first hand knowledge. Each of us is an ambassador for pipe smoking so our behavior will either benefit the hobby or turn people off from it.
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Post by fadingdaylight on Mar 27, 2016 9:49:34 GMT -5
Hell, I'm 33, been wearing flannel shirts since the early 90's, nearly everyday. My jeans tend to still have holes in them too, because I don't care and hate buying new ones. And now that I am out of the army, I keep a short beard. But I am certainly not a hipster, and far from being any kind of expert. I just don't feel the need for a style update. In fact, I couldn't care less about fashion. Some are too quick to judge. I have been smoking a pipe for about four years now, and I can say for certain that I know close to nothing still. I can just barely distinguish certain flavors, I seem to do a horrible job packing my pipe at least twice a week, and I find that I don't have answers for but the simplest questions others may have about pipe smoking. I often lurk the forums in search of new information to help me along the way. , I agree that experience makes the man, so to say. Those new smokers come to these places in search of that experience, and many are willing to lend a hand. I agree though, that when someone claims expertise that they could not possibly have, they are posers. Of course, I simply ignore them. I came to these places, originally, to seek that same experience, and have stuck around because of people. Pipe smokers are, for the most part, good people. I have made a lot of friends and learned a lot. In short, I guess my point is that while some posers do exist, being quick to judge, and that goes for everyone, will not help find the new smokers who are sincere. And those sincere ones, especially the ones who don't know any other pipe smokers, need these forums to help them learn about pipes, tobacco, and all that comes with it.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 27, 2016 10:07:47 GMT -5
I have a problem with the veteran piper who tells the new smoker they should spend high dollars on pipes and dismisses the estates and Cob while the new smoker is learning. We all know that it takes several months to learn to pack a pipe and know how long to dry the tobacco. Hell I have been smoking a pipe off and on since 1970 I have bad days, with different tobacco. Within the last year and a half I was told I should sell all of my pipes and buy only pipes that cost the minimum of $200.00. This was done by a pipe snob. These guys effect the desire and mind set of the new smoker. Recently I have seen it happen twice though the local group.
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Post by FQ on Mar 27, 2016 10:34:07 GMT -5
It's funny that you bring up the second kind of new smoker because when I went to a tobacconist he took one look at my pipe and said, "If you'll stop smoking that for a moment, I'll clean it because that pipe is in desperate need of a cleaning." I agreed and he took it away for a few minutes. When he brought it back it was like a brand new pipe. He then showed me where I could find tobacco to sample and I showed me how to pack my pipe properly. As I was leaving he said, "Well, you did good because you shut up. Sometimes I get young people in here who have read stuff on the Internet and they start to argue with me and then I don't feel too inclined to help them." Thanks to the tobacconist I was able to find that Chris Morgan Bones bent liverpool and find some tobacco I might like.
I think reading stuff on the Internet can give one an overinflated sense of understanding. You can read a dozen articles on pipe smoking a couple hours and feel as though you know everything, but pipe smoking requires a bit of skill and patience. Those are things you can't simply acquire through reading, you have to work at them.
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Post by stvalentine on Mar 27, 2016 11:18:38 GMT -5
If I would start smoking pipes today I would read tons of articles on the internet and decide afterwards that it is too expensive and complicated! After having been a pipesmoker many, many years ago and reading tons of articles on the internet I feel that pipesmoking is so much more simple and even a cheap affair if you are inclined to make it so. One can easily live with one corn cob and a cheap tobacco and be a pipesmoker. Like in cigars we have many pipe snobs these days that make things overly complicated. You better not believe them...
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Post by herbinedave on Mar 27, 2016 13:33:10 GMT -5
Years ago on another forum I was available for the most part to help a new guy or gal. I have never been one to label, but never could figure how a hipster fit in them skinny jeans! As I have aged I believe in live and let live. The only thing ever bugged me was answering the same questions over and over, The damn forum had a search feature that worked and most where to lazy or stupid to use it!
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Post by simnettpratt on Mar 27, 2016 14:59:17 GMT -5
Ha! Not for all of us. For me, the number is ∞; I'm never going to learn how to pack a pipe and have essentially given up. Grr.
No kidding. If there were no search feature I wouldn't mind. But there is, you lazy arse.
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Post by stvalentine on Mar 27, 2016 15:35:37 GMT -5
Packing the pipe so that it delivers a good smoke only started to work for me when I began to give a damn about it.
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Post by crapgame on Mar 27, 2016 16:44:25 GMT -5
Great topic! I still have much more to learn about pipe smoking..hell I cant figure out how to pack a pipe with flakes or slices ..what I usually end up doing is crushing them up to damn near dust and mixing them with some neutral or bland blend just to get it to burn.. As far as the "NEW" pipe smoker..I will always help one out when I can with what I do know and or suggest someone or some place else to ask for help.I was lucky that I had a great shop owner who guided me on the start of my pipe smoking journey which continues to this day and I hope never ends..I dont want to find the unicorn fart and once finding that never want to smoke again! As far as the "hipsters" go..this is not vaping..this is smoking..there is as art to smoking a pipe there is for some people there is even a ritual for packing and lighting a pipe that is lost on those who just click an odd device to on then start vaping. After thinking on this for a bit more time I am sure I will have more to say.
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Post by crapgame on Mar 27, 2016 16:50:55 GMT -5
I have a problem with the veteran piper who tells the new smoker they should spend high dollars on pipes and dismisses the estates and Cob while the new smoker is learning. We all know that it takes several months to learn to pack a pipe and know how long to dry the tobacco. Hell I have been smoking a pipe off and on since 1970 I have bad days, with different tobacco. Within the last year and a half I was told I should sell all of my pipes and buy only pipes that cost the minimum of $200.00. This was done by a pipe snob. These guys effect the desire and mind set of the new smoker. Recently I have seen it happen twice though the local group. You know I never smoked a cob or a falcon because I was advised against it from those who "better" and said cobs and falcons are just for geezers who smoke five brothers and cutty pipe! I now find myself waiting for the kids to go back to school so I can get a cob and start smoking it..I don't smoke in front of them..I also think the cost factor will be a bonus because I really don't smoke a whole lot and instead of paying for pipes I can buy tobacco and start it aging!
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Post by crapgame on Mar 27, 2016 16:53:22 GMT -5
Interesting topic. While I don't disagree that the "posers" and "know it all's" are annoying, I'm often shocked at how dismissive the "old guard" is of newer pipe smokers. There are these little groups of old school pipe smokers all around the internet that believe that anyone that has a beard, or wears a flannel shirt and smokes a pipe is a "hipster". I'm actually saddened by the tendency to throw around the "hipster" label and even more disturbed by the willingness of people to judge or discount others based simply on their look or clothing style. While there will always be "posers" in any hobby or group of people, if we can turn 1 of them into a true pipe smoker, we are ahead of the game. I have heard people comment on the decreasing popularity of forums compared to Facebook and YouTube. It's true and the reason is simple. Forums for the most part, are filled with old school, ivory tower pipe smokers that think that anything outside of their defined norm doesn't belong. Well, all of those people outside of the norm are the ones that will carry on the pipe smoking torch and eventually the ivory towers will be empty. Does that mean I don't need a smoking jacket? Do I not have to wear a cardigan with elbow patches and grow a "scholarly" beard?
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Post by Darin on Mar 27, 2016 18:02:35 GMT -5
Since I used the term "posers", I wanted to respond to this. I was not implying that this was "hipsters" only. If one truly enjoys tobacco and smoking a pipe then that's great and I'll help you all I can regardless of personal appearances. However, if you are sticking a pipe in your mouth only around certain friends and only to impart an "image", then I'm sorry but you are a poser.
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Post by oldcajun123 on Mar 27, 2016 18:19:01 GMT -5
This guy is not a Poser he's a Porker.
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Post by fadingdaylight on Mar 27, 2016 19:09:57 GMT -5
Since I used the term "posers", I wanted to respond to this. I was not implying that this was "hipsters" only. If one truly enjoys tobacco and smoking a pipe then that's great and I'll help you all I can regardless of personal appearances. However, if you are sticking a pipe in your mouth only around certain friends and only to impart an "image", then I'm sorry but you are a poser. Darin, I don't think anyone misunderstood you. Your dead right, the people with the "fashion accessory" pipes and the ones that only have one because their trendy friends are doing it, are posers. And the ones was referring to, the "I did some internet reading so now I know all about pipe smoking" ones, well they kinda go beyond poser. Speaking from experience, as a guy who initially came to PM looking for knowledge and advise, many of the members here, now, had been over there for years when I showed up. Many of the members here, including yourself, Tim, Brad, John and others have been extremely helpful and kind to me. That is a large part of what took me from "tinkering newbie" to a guy who is finally about to put the nails down for good and keep exploring all that pipe smoking has to offer. Posers will come and go. But, like you and Justin both said, being kind to those of us who are honestly in search of guidance (for lack of a better term), is the key to this whole community. It is what makes pipe smokers such pleasant company, and what will continue to attract people to this community. I got long-winded again. Point is, we know you weren't pointing fingers man, you were speaking the truth. Honestly, every time I see a picture of someone on SP, dressed like something off a GQ cover, with a perfectly waxed stache and an overpriced pipe in their mouth, it makes me want to shop elsewhere. Pipe snobs and pipe fashionistas make me sick.
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Post by simnettpratt on Mar 27, 2016 20:20:10 GMT -5
Look, coffeeman's not a poser, but the difference between the way he and Shainy looked at the Chicago Pipe Show was too funny not make into a meme. Sorry, Sam.
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Post by Darin on Mar 27, 2016 21:23:09 GMT -5
oldcajun123: Too funny, Brad! fadingdaylight: Amen, Jason ... I agree 100%! It just threw me off when my "posers" comment seemed to be linked to "hipsters" and I wanted to clarify that I was not singling out any one group. As for the terrible ads that are posed ... Molto Dolce!
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Post by sparks on Mar 28, 2016 5:57:53 GMT -5
Sorry Darin, I didn't intend to link your poser reference to hipsters. It was more of a general observation about how often guys on the forums gripe about hipsters and use that label.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 28, 2016 10:01:34 GMT -5
Poser, Hipster, what ever they may be I just really don't care much. As long as they treat me and everyone with respect. Know it all's are to be expected everywhere and for the most part I'll just ignore them. As far as packing a pipe I'm no expert either, sometimes I get it right and then there's times I don't. Reckon that's just part of life, if I can smoke it it's just fine. As far as people asking questions that have been answered many times and not searching first for the answer, it doesn't bother me in the least. I feel if you don't want to answer them because of it don't, no ones forcing you to. I'm always happy to answer a question no matter how many times it's been answered. I thought that's what we're here for. Besides, new pipe smokers ( I don't like the word Newbie, just sounds degrading to me) sometimes are also new to forums and even computers so to find anything using the search engine can be frustrating at best. I still have problems from time to time finding something in search if the phrase isn't used just right. I've built many PC's for myself but, software is not one of my strong points. I also don't feel I know everything, almost but, I'm still learning and will be till my grave I expect.
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Post by Darin on Mar 28, 2016 19:44:18 GMT -5
No worries sparks! This conversation is really apropos for me right now. There is a guy that I work with who has expressed interest in pipe smoking and said he already has one pipe ... a Peterson. So, I gave him about half a dozen blends to try and waited ... and waited, and waited. Finally, after about a month, he said "My buddies and I got together last night so I smoked my pipe and tried one of those blends". Really? You waited a month so that you could smoke your pipe around a few select people? So ... there's a prime example.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 28, 2016 19:56:56 GMT -5
No worries sparks ! This conversation is really apropos for me right now. There is a guy that I work with who has expressed interest in pipe smoking and said he already has one pipe ... a Peterson. So, I gave him about half a dozen blends to try and waited ... and waited, and waited. Finally, after about a month, he said "My buddies and I got together last night so I smoked my pipe and tried one of those blends". Really? You waited a month so that you could smoke your pipe around a few select people? So ... there's a prime example. Yeah but, without people like them we might not have enough to laugh about.
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Post by sparks on Mar 28, 2016 20:33:58 GMT -5
I think I need to add some of Ron's emojis into the default list, lol.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 28, 2016 22:57:09 GMT -5
I think I need to add some of Ron's emojis into the default list, lol. I had to look that word up (emojis), told ya I didn't know everything. Emoticon, simple word for a simple man. A lot of forums just don't have ones I like so in my travels I pick up ones I do and use them when I can on other forums and it really doesn't take any longer to use mine then the ones supplied.
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Post by antb on Mar 29, 2016 6:01:54 GMT -5
If I would start smoking pipes today I would read tons of articles on the internet and decide afterwards that it is too expensive and complicated! After having been a pipesmoker many, many years ago and reading tons of articles on the internet I feel that pipesmoking is so much more simple and even a cheap affair if you are inclined to make it so. One can easily live with one corn cob and a cheap tobacco and be a pipesmoker. Like in cigars we have many pipe snobs these days that make things overly complicated. You better not believe them... Very True words!
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Post by yaddy306 on Mar 29, 2016 23:12:46 GMT -5
The only thing ever bugged me was answering the same questions over and over, The damn forum had a search feature that worked and most where to lazy or stupid to use it! My thoughts exactly. Geez! Lurk a while, do some searches, before you post a question that's been asked and answered a thousand times before.
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Post by qmechanics on Sept 9, 2018 3:58:14 GMT -5
I was told by my mom that the pipe makes me look distinguished. Once I looked up distinguished on Google,I had to smile. It is true that kind words from one's parents go a long way. However when my friends saw me smoking a pipe, they called me pretentious. Again with the help of Google,I looked up the word and felt perplexed. Do I really look pretentious or distinguished? So I made a compromise and thought I looked like a pretentious distinguished gentleman(This last word I added after checking with Google). All my worries went away. 😁
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Post by sablebrush52 on Sept 9, 2018 10:09:53 GMT -5
Wow! You know a forum has become successful when it has threads to be, and being, necro bumped! Congratulations!
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Post by oldcajun123 on Sept 9, 2018 10:17:49 GMT -5
You got shits in every crowd, every age group, embrace the young and they will come, if they know more than you at the start, let them go on their disastrous way.
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