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Post by AJ on Jul 11, 2018 23:04:18 GMT -5
It has taken me many years to realize how blissful boredom can be. After spending most of my life managing one crisis after another, dealing with the fickle public, maintaining my home and property, raising two daughters, and dealing with several serious health issues I now discover when I’m alone and nothing needs my attention, nothing of interest on TV, no telemarketers phoning me, and I have nothing or no one that needs me to respond to their wants or needs, I find myself getting bored. I’m confined to my home most days all alone. Boredom becomes a way of life and I embrace it. Peace and quiet with time to enjoy my pipes and tobacco allows me to clear my head and enjoy my existence. A few years ago I wouldn’t have been able to tolerate the solitude. With boredom my stress levels dissipate and I revel in a new sense of freedom. I don’t think many under the age of 65 are able to comprehend what I’m talking about. Somehow the blissfulness of boredom developes slowly similar to developing an acquired taste. It requires no effort on my part but the awareness of this phenomenon suddenly becomes a blissful reality. I wonder if this rings true for others or am I unique? 🤔
AJ
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Post by Deleted on Jul 11, 2018 23:26:15 GMT -5
Short answer: no. I'm with you.
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Post by monbla256 on Jul 11, 2018 23:26:34 GMT -5
AJ, That's just another description for pipe smoking !!  |
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Post by Dramatwist on Jul 11, 2018 23:54:48 GMT -5
...we must be brothers from different mothers...
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Post by Florida on Jul 11, 2018 23:56:09 GMT -5
I'm almost there; 3 months go!
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2018 0:47:36 GMT -5
AJ, you know me well and how I live on a daily basis. Even though I live with family most of the time I’m by myself. Took me quite some time too also get adjusted, moving down South. When I was healthy and working I was constantly on the go, traveling to other countries, sometimes as many as three within a 24 hour period. Never had time to relax and enjoy life, there were weeks when I worked 120 plus hours, 7 full days a week. Today’s generation complains when they work 40 hours an at times they might be asked to do a few hours overtime. I was use to being around people, dealing with major issues that could boggle one’s mind, making split second decisions that would effect many people, a big responsibility. Extremely stressful lifestyle and that my friend I do not miss!
Now I’m either in my room listening to my music with my headphones so I don’t disturb anyone. Or working on a small project and enjoying a pipe. At times sitting on the front porch if it’s cool outside or when the sun goes down on these hot days. Listening to the sounds of birds, watching the hummingbirds feed or waiting for my neighbors cat to stop by for a visit.
Do I suffer from boredom, definitely not. At times maybe a little depressed due to health issues and did not expect this would be how I spend my life from the early age of 60! I know the type of man I am and my strong belief in God and my faith. I’ve learned and accepted how I must live for now, I’m at peace with life and enjoy the time I get to spend with my grandchildren, which are my life! If I’m not reading a good book, or online being part of this forum I make sure I keep myself busy for my own wellbeing. I’m going to be 67 this September and still enjoy working with my hands, so boredom is not part of my life. Meditation at night gives me the inner peace to meet the next day with a positive attitude. There are many times I light up a favorite pipe and tobacco and just sit on a chair outside in complete solitude and contemplate and think profoundly of my personal achievements in life, which gives me blissful inner peace. More than that I can not ask for, Amen.
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Post by Stanhill on Jul 12, 2018 1:00:56 GMT -5
AJ, it doesn't sound like boredom at all. To me, it sounds like a happy pensioner's life. The third-best thing I ever did, was to retire 3 years ago.
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Post by slowroll on Jul 12, 2018 5:44:30 GMT -5
That s not boredom, that's contentment.
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Post by Baboo on Jul 12, 2018 6:41:52 GMT -5
I don't think that I've ever experienced boredom. Maybe "disinterest" with, say, a lecture or television program, but never twiddle-my-thumbs boredom. Nothing to do, attend to, or plan for means for me rest/peace/relax... probably the three rarest commodities I can relate to.
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Post by papipeguy on Jul 12, 2018 7:54:51 GMT -5
I never seem to be done doing nothing. Everyday is Saturday and having time to think is a gift.
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Post by peterd-Buffalo Spirit on Jul 12, 2018 8:12:27 GMT -5
AJ...I can appreciate your thoughts...with still one child at home and a wife with serious health issues, I am busy...but there are times when solitude is welcome...my pipes and tobacco are a refuge...and of course, one of my passions...
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Post by just ol ed on Jul 12, 2018 8:21:33 GMT -5
retired since 9/1/07. Still busy with a little "under the table" income, I too have problems (mostly minor) with wifie care yet find time to enjoy my pipes, cigar outside at times and main thing, a little snoozie near anytime feel like it.
Ed Duncan, Batavia, NY
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Post by AJ on Jul 12, 2018 8:38:59 GMT -5
...we must be brothers from different mothers... I’ve noticed we do have similar likes and dislikes.  AJ |
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Post by pepesdad1 on Jul 12, 2018 10:53:09 GMT -5
It has taken me many years to realize how blissful boredom can be. After spending most of my life managing one crisis after another, dealing with the fickle public, maintaining my home and property, raising two daughters, and dealing with several serious health issues I now discover when I’m alone and nothing needs my attention, nothing of interest on TV, no telemarketers phoning me, and I have nothing or no one that needs me to respond to their wants or needs, I find myself getting bored. I’m confined to my home most days all alone. Boredom becomes a way of life and I embrace it. Peace and quiet with time to enjoy my pipes and tobacco allows me to clear my head and enjoy my existence. A few years ago I wouldn’t have been able to tolerate the solitude. With boredom my stress levels dissipate and I revel in a new sense of freedom. I don’t think many under the age of 65 are able to comprehend what I’m talking about. Somehow the blissfulness of boredom developes slowly similar to developing an acquired taste. It requires no effort on my part but the awareness of this phenomenon suddenly becomes a blissful reality. I wonder if this rings true for others or am I unique? 🤔 AJ You are never alone my brother. I am always there in spirit with you. I, too, enjoy the peace and solitude with my wife and sweet lil pup, MissElli. She is a rescue who would have been put down as she has epilepsy and requires meds twice a day. She is our constant companion and travels wherever we go whether in her carrier or her "limo". |
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Post by oldcajun123 on Jul 12, 2018 11:24:53 GMT -5
 I'm with you, retired from Exxon, Operations was my gig, ran a huge Ethylene plant, control room , phone calls all day, fires, explosion once knocked me out of control house, dealing with public on phone, cancer made me retire, MD Anderson said make your will out, that was in 98, still here I'm a tough old SOB. Retired, took a lump sum invested, Fininacal guys screwed the pooch in their favor, lost all bit a third, got in a class action suit, took three years won, got 75% of my money back, while in arbitration bought a UD TRUCK, hot shouted all over Southern States, had heart bypass in 98 also, it gave out trucking, had to have 4 stints. Won suit, massive amount , bought 100 yr old house while trucking, cur it in half, trucked it 10 miles to my farm by a house mover, put it together, wife and I worked on it . Got money back, now when I sit on old porch, smoking my pipes I am so glad I have to do NOTHING. Thinking about adopting a rescue dog, mine died of cancer, questionnaire on adoption papers asks are you thinking about moving, my answer, if I do it will be in a box.! 
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Post by radioguy on Jul 12, 2018 12:00:03 GMT -5
Any day without pain, confrontation or crisis is a good day. Give me a comfortable house, good food, my pipes, my music, plenty of reading material and life is good. Paid enough dues, raised kids, supported others when possible, now content to let the young turks fight the daily grind. Solitude never bothers me, although I do enjoy being with or talking with others. TV and radio today are a giant cesspool.
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Post by pepesdad1 on Jul 12, 2018 14:04:45 GMT -5
Old Cajun said: " Thinking about adopting a rescue dog"
You will never be happier than when you rescue one of those sweet souls. They return your love always, and are there for you no matter what. Your heart will be filled with joy every time you see that sweet face.
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Post by Legend Lover on Jul 12, 2018 17:41:15 GMT -5
My life is busy at the minute. I love the hour or so I get to have a pipe and let the world catch up with me. I wish it happened more often, but when it does, it's bliss.
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Post by zver on Jul 12, 2018 19:05:49 GMT -5
My life is busy at the minute. I love the hour or so I get to have a pipe and let the world catch up with me. I wish it happened more often, but when it does, it's bliss. You are doing the best you can. Taking an exit from the fast lane just for an hour will help lower your stress and allow your mind to process lifes events. It has helped me keep my focus on the really important stuff. Z |
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Post by Legend Lover on Jul 13, 2018 16:59:00 GMT -5
My life is busy at the minute. I love the hour or so I get to have a pipe and let the world catch up with me. I wish it happened more often, but when it does, it's bliss. You are doing the best you can. Taking an exit from the fast lane just for an hour will help lower your stress and allow your mind to process lifes events. It has helped me keep my focus on the really important stuff. Z amen to that |
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I'm with you, retired from Exxon, Operations was my gig, ran a huge Ethylene plant, control room , phone calls all day, fires, explosion once knocked me out of control house, dealing with public on phone, cancer made me retire, MD Anderson said make your will out, that was in 98, still here I'm a tough old SOB. Retired, took a lump sum invested, Fininacal guys screwed the pooch in their favor, lost all bit a third, got in a class action suit, took three years won, got 75% of my money back, while in arbitration bought a UD TRUCK, hot shouted all over Southern States, had heart bypass in 98 also, it gave out trucking, had to have 4 stints. Won suit, massive amount , bought 100 yr old house while trucking, cur it in half, trucked it 10 miles to my farm by a house mover, put it together, wife and I worked on it . Got money back, now when I sit on old porch, smoking my pipes I am so glad I have to do NOTHING. Thinking about adopting a rescue dog, mine died of cancer, questionnaire on adoption papers asks are you thinking about moving, my answer, if I do it will be in a box.! 
