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Post by AJ on Aug 2, 2018 16:47:23 GMT -5
With the recent threads about old OTC blends memories from my childhood consume my mind and emotions. So many events and occurrences involving my Dad and myself flow through my mind like a soft warm rain on a Summer night.
Unlike most boys my age living in my neighborhood, whose hero’s were Superman, Elliot Ness, Sgt. Friday, and etc., my hero was my Dad. There was nothing he couldn’t build, fix, or do. He fought in the Battle of the Bulge and won a Bronze Star while serving in the 2nd Calvary, XII Corps of Patton’s Third Army. Dad, along with his Company, rescued the world famous Lipizzaner Horses from the threat of being eaten by the Russian Army in Czechoslovakia. He spent the most of his life working in Paper Mill. As Superintendent of one of the machines he was responsible for the most production in a day ever achieved, not only that machine owned by the company he worked for, but it was a world record for that type of machine. Dad spent nearly fifty years working a job that gave him a lot of satisfaction. But it was when Dad was at home that we shared our time together.
Dad was a master carpenter, pipe fitter, and one of the best shade tree mechanics ever. Whenever he was working on some project I was right there with him while he explained everything thing he did. As a young boy the doors of our car never opened for him to go somewhere that I didn’t jump in and stand on the seat beside him with my left arm wrapped around his shoulder or neck holding on and “going with Daddy”. One of Dad’s favorite destinations was the scrap yard. He so enjoyed finding an old worn out lawnmower engine, a base made for some other type of lawnmower, getting them for hardly any money, taking them home, and making a completely like new mower. He would sell them for $10.00 and turn to me and wink. Dad was man of wisdom and knew how to make a point without seemly to be angry, impatient, or upset. I remember as a teenager there was a fad that kids were wearing Nazi Soldier Helmets. Dad was loading something in the trunk of the car and I approached him and told him I wanted one of those helmets. He turned slowly toward me and said, “Son I fought a war so you wouldn’t ever have to wear that helmet.” It was like I had been struck. Dad had never mentioned the war to me. But now with a few words I realized how much the war had affected him and I believe my words had stung. I was ashamed of my thoughtlessness. Needless to say I never entertained anymore thoughts about wearing or identifying anything Nazi.
My Dad smoked cigarettes (Chesterfield and Camels) and a pipe for over 70 years. It was his pipe that I first used to experiment and eventually learned to enjoy the art of pipe smoking. He always smoked Half and Half, as did his Dad, until American Tobacco sold out to Pinkerton. The first bowl of Pinkerton’s Half and Half resulted in him throwing his pipe across the room cursing about the awful taste. He never smoked Half and Half again. He smoked Sir Walter Raleigh, Grainger, Edgeworth, and even some Captain Black. I’ve seen him load his pipe with Bull Durham and seem to enjoy it. Over the years we shared many bowls together while sitting in the swing of his back porch. Those were good times and he taught me so many things about all aspects of life and being a real man. A man dedicated to family, honesty, having a good work ethic, and never being afraid of hard work. I spent my life trying to make him proud of me. I’m pretty sure I was successful because he was a great teacher.
I never light my pipe that I don’t remember my hero and thank him for the life he prepared me for along with teaching me about the wonders and pleasures a man can get from a pipe and a pouch of tobacco.
Yesterday my Dad would have turned 94 years of age. Sadly I lost him in January of 2008. I was right beside him with my arm wrapped around his shoulder and neck.
AJ
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Post by oldcajun123 on Aug 2, 2018 16:52:08 GMT -5
Such a moving tribute, honest, loveing, that’s what America is really like, you were a fortunate son and man, thank you.
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Post by Legend Lover on Aug 2, 2018 17:04:20 GMT -5
I can't say it better than this ^^^^.
Thank you for putting that together. You've got some great memories. It's good to stop and take time to remember. I'm glad you've done that here.
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Post by trailboss on Aug 2, 2018 17:08:14 GMT -5
He truly was a great man on so many levels it sounds like... countryman, father, husband... etc. There were truly some wonderful people from that generation.
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Post by Pistol Pete 1911 on Aug 2, 2018 17:18:39 GMT -5
That is the most awesome Dad story that I have ever heard! I'm glad that you got to spend so much time with him and I'm completely convinced that you are the man you are today for having a great Dad.
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Post by slowroll on Aug 2, 2018 17:25:49 GMT -5
Marvelous. I empathize greatly. I too miss my father, he lived with wife and I for his last 10 years, went 9 years ago, I still have his apartment in my house and I still miss him.
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Post by scrooge on Aug 2, 2018 17:28:01 GMT -5
Nice.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 2, 2018 17:36:21 GMT -5
AJ, excellent tribute to your Dad, I’m sure he’s been looking down on you and is proud of how you kept the family traditions close to your heart. You were lucky to have a Dad that still can give you fond memories!! Nice to sit back during the day when it’s quiet and contemplate on all the good times from your past. Thanks for sharing a story from your heart. Cheers to you my friend 👍👍👍
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Post by Matthew on Aug 2, 2018 17:42:49 GMT -5
Thank You AJ.
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Post by Cramptholomew on Aug 2, 2018 17:55:05 GMT -5
Thanks for this, AJ. It's a wonderful example of what a parent/child relationship should be.
I truly aspire to be that kind of father to my children. I envy you're relationship with your dad. I tend to yell a lot, and feel bad later. I'm working on it.
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Post by JimInks on Aug 2, 2018 18:03:27 GMT -5
A great article, AJ!
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Post by Dramatwist on Aug 2, 2018 19:26:11 GMT -5
Touching, AJ!
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Post by pepesdad1 on Aug 2, 2018 19:41:01 GMT -5
He was a man of many talents...much like yourself. He would be very upset with this country now. Those days of humility and greatness are gone along with the values that made this country exceptional. You are a lucky man, AJ.
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Post by crapgame on Aug 2, 2018 20:02:51 GMT -5
Very nice tribute...
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Post by Deleted on Aug 2, 2018 20:08:00 GMT -5
Thanks, AJ. Wonderful memories of your dad.
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Post by PipeSteader on Aug 2, 2018 20:37:47 GMT -5
Such a wonderful tribute to an amazing man.
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Post by monbla256 on Aug 2, 2018 21:00:30 GMT -5
AJ, You were one very lucky due ! Enjoyed the fond reccolection you have.
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Post by papipeguy on Aug 2, 2018 21:17:26 GMT -5
That's a beautifully told story, AJ. I'm sure it will touch a lot of hearts. I now it did mine.
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Post by AJ on Aug 2, 2018 22:21:00 GMT -5
Your replies to my post have been very touching. I thank you all for helping me honor my Dad.
AJ
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Post by peteguy on Aug 2, 2018 22:40:23 GMT -5
Great read - thanks for the tribute to a piper we should all remember.
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Post by peterd-Buffalo Spirit on Aug 3, 2018 0:50:24 GMT -5
… AJ...a great tribute to your father...as has been stated, those relationships are so important...many don't have them today...Thanks for sharing such wonderful memories...
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Post by trailboss on Aug 3, 2018 1:47:55 GMT -5
One of my uncles was a tad too young to be in WWII, but he did serve in Korea and was stationed in Japan where he met his future bride, my aunt Sumiko. One of my cousins said that it was obvious in public that sometimes when they ran into a WWII vet that had fought the Japanese, his mother immediately got funky vibes from them. He said she understood though,because being a well read woman she knew of the sadistic and horrific acts that the Japanese had performed on their enemies.
Kind of hard for us to think about, not so much for them that had been there, done that, got the T-shirt to prove it....my uncle on the other side of the family was on Omaha beach and the battle of the bulge, he said he had more respect for the German soldiers, they were more military minded and not so blood thirsty...He did admit, that he never met Mengele, or Hitler, and he wasn't a Jew...so there is that.
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Post by unknownpipesmoker on Aug 3, 2018 2:26:43 GMT -5
They call them the greatest generation for a reason. He seems like a top notch guy, you are very lucky. I am lucky to still have my father around. I try to cherish every day. He was never a smoker, but his father, as I've said before, had a thing for bulldog-shaped Grabows and Peterson pipes, and apple and cherry tobacco blends as well, which I am not sure I'll ever understand, but that was his taste.
Those helmets, yes I know exactly what you mean. They're still popular with bikers in some parts of the US and the UK also. Its hard to get farang to even wear a helmet in Thailand - even though its the law. But enforcement is spotty, and bikers generally don't care. The shape of that helmet goes through German history, so its not SPECIFICALLY a nazi design, so it doesn't put me off too greatly. I unfortunately see some guys riding around with nazi decals on black helmets like that - totally not cool. If they could only see what their parents and grandparents had to go through to rid the world of that evil.
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Post by antb on Aug 3, 2018 2:31:29 GMT -5
Thanks for sharing, AJ. Brought a tear to the eye....and a smile.
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Post by Robert Perkins on Aug 3, 2018 6:28:45 GMT -5
Wonderful tribute, AJ. Thanks for sharing.
Yeah, I was blessed with an awesome Dad, too.
Wish everybody could have been as lucky as you and me, because the world would surely be a much better place.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2018 7:58:25 GMT -5
One of my uncles was a tad too young to be in WWII, but he did serve in Korea and was stationed in Japan where he met his future bride, my aunt Sumiko. One of my cousins said thata it was obvious in public that sometimes when they ran into a WWII vet that had fought the Japanese, his mother immediately got funky vibes from them. He said she understood though,because being a well read woman she knew of the sadistic and horrific acts that the Japanese had performed on their enemies. Kind of hard for us to think about, not so much for them that had been there, done that, got the T-shirt to prove it....my uncle on the other side of the family was on Omaha beach and the battle of the bulge, he said he had more respect for the German soldiers, they were more military minded and not so blood thirsty...He did admit, that he never met Mengele, or Hitler, and he wasn't a Jew...so there is that. Charlie, my Dad was a Marine sniper during WWII, he came home traumatized, which affected him for the rest of his life! Growing up with a Marine wasn’t easy for any of us! My Dad never spoke about his “ landings on four beaches in the South Pacific “, but to the day he passed away, God forbid he ever crossed paths with anyone of Japanese decent, that person was better off just to keep walking!! One of his doctors at the VA was from Japan, I never thought my Dad was capable of speaking such language, when he told this doctor off. He never went back to a VA hospital again because in his mind he thought “ how could our government hire Japanese doctors after the sneak attack on Pearl Harbor “, he kept his word in that case! My Dad’s war time history is online, on the website “ Together We Served “, and when I read about what my Dad accomplished with his troops, seeing his ribbons and patches he earned I can now understand how this can totally change ones personality and beliefs for life!! The German’s in WWII were a far cry from saints, I’ve personally visited 3 death camps, to this day it still can bring tears to my eyes. When I held a lampshade made from human flesh that certainly left an imprint in my mind to this very day. I was in Munich during what was called “ Games of the XX Olympia “, at the age of 21 I can still see the massacre when I close my eyes, my doctors wonder why I suffer from severe insomnia! Golda Meir, the fourth Prime Minister of the State of Israel made a public statement, “ it will take time, but The State of Israel will find and punish those responsible for the horrific crimes against The State of Israel “! It took a number of years, but those responsible paid dearly! AJ, You know much about me and my relationship with my Dad, the story you wrote about your Dad made me sit back and contemplate all the why’s and why not’s during my childhood. You have some great memories of your Dad, those will stay forever in your heart for all eternity.
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Post by oldcajun123 on Aug 3, 2018 8:14:53 GMT -5
I worked with a man whose son is a famous Author, he was a Colonel in the Army, served in the Pacific, when we has visitors from Japan we hid him because he was to fly off the handle, we knew him and took care of him. One more elderly friend was a war photographer, nicest man you could meet, he took pictures of the Fat Man and Little boy devastation, he never showed animosity about Japanese, one day we had important Japan officials that came to inspect our plant, introducing himself he said I’m the Guy who dropped the bomb on you. Well, that went over like a fart in Church. We had some embarrassed Exxon officials, when they tried to talk to him, he said those £_]…$*#’l, SOBs took 5 yrs ove my life and killed some of my buddies, seeing the emotion they wisely backed off, another one we had to hide.
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Post by Legend Lover on Aug 3, 2018 9:21:54 GMT -5
I worked with a man whose son is a famous Author, he was a Colonel in the Army, served in the Pacific, when we has visitors from Japan we hid him because he was to fly off the handle, we knew him and took care of him. One more elderly friend was a war photographer, nicest man you could meet, he took pictures of the Fat Man and Little boy devastation, he never showed animosity about Japanese, one day we had important Japan officials that came to inspect our plant, introducing himself he said I’m the Guy who dropped the bomb on you. Well, that went over like a fart in Church. We had some embarrassed Exxon officials, when they tried to talk to him, he said those £_]…$*#’l, SOBs took 5 yrs ove my life and killed some of my buddies, seeing the emotion they wisely backed off, another one we had to hide. I've no idea how people like that must feel. I can imagine, but I won't come close.
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Post by AJ on Aug 3, 2018 16:34:23 GMT -5
I could talk about my Dad for days and days non-stop. I enjoy his memory that much. With your indulgence let me share a little more about my lifelong hero.
My Dad was a marvel for getting his point across with minimal effort or words.
When I was four years old he took me “hunting”. In fact we just drove to an old farm where he began teaching me how to shoot. He had a borrowed a .22 ca. rifle from his brother and after talking to me about gun safety in terms that I, as a four year old, could understand he allowed me to shoot the rifle for the first time. I could barely hold the gun up long enough to aim. Of course he helped me with it so I could hit the tin can which was probably only 10-15 feet in front of us. Over the years he talked with me about firearms and gun safety along with the importance of understanding the responsibility gun ownership. However, after the first time of taking me out with a gun, I never knew him to go hunting. A few years before he died I asked him why he would never go hunting with other family members or his friends? In a gentle voice he said, “I killed enough during the war.” This was the last time he ever said anything to me that revealed the true man that lived deep within.
AJ
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Post by Legend Lover on Aug 3, 2018 17:06:09 GMT -5
Wow
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