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Post by trailboss on Nov 30, 2019 10:03:44 GMT -5
A grown tree that is never tested by the winds that blow its way, can be uprooted and wrecked when the inevitable happens, the briar is constantly subjected to the forces that come its way can be a gem in the hands of the master, some of us end up with pits on the surface, the others are just not visible.
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Post by Legend Lover on Nov 30, 2019 10:43:09 GMT -5
Thanks guys. It's just life and no matter what I do, I'm dealt the crappiest hand possible. I make the best of it, but I still lose. Once in a while, when I get a good hand and think "it's about time," someone cheats and I still lose. This is apparently the normal way my life goes. Does it have to? Nope. Do I allow it? Yes I do. Why do I? No clue, and that's why I changed drs and am going to therapy more often. I hope everyone had a good Thanksgiving. You've got this, brother. And you're not on your own in this either. Despite being 'virtual' friends, we're very much real and willing you on throughout this. |
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Post by sperrytops on Nov 30, 2019 11:53:01 GMT -5
Thanks guys. It's just life and no matter what I do, I'm dealt the crappiest hand possible. I make the best of it, but I still lose. Once in a while, when I get a good hand and think "it's about time," someone cheats and I still lose. This is apparently the normal way my life goes. Does it have to? Nope. Do I allow it? Yes I do. Why do I? No clue, and that's why I changed drs and am going to therapy more often. I hope everyone had a good Thanksgiving. We are thinking about you, friend. Holidays are tough when you have to deal with a lot. Be strong. |
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Post by roadsdiverged on Dec 2, 2019 17:19:57 GMT -5
Thanks guys, I'm well and still kicking... and smoking like a chimney.
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Post by Legend Lover on Dec 2, 2019 17:24:57 GMT -5
Thanks guys, I'm well and still kicking... and smoking like a chimney. we miss you, bro. |
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Post by pepesdad1 on Dec 2, 2019 18:17:05 GMT -5
I'll add my .02cents also...Josh has been through alot...he has maintained his core through out this ordeal..much of the pressure is scrubbing him, but his core is true to himself and his children and he will never...ever let them down...that is just the way he is.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 2, 2019 18:18:37 GMT -5
8 years ago (age 42) I was in bad shape: obese (nearly 300 pounds/5’9’’), metabolic syndrome (high BP/high cholesterol/pre-diabetic) and plagued with anxiety/post-stress syndrome. I chose to adopt a healthy plant based vegan diet and it changed everything. I lost 100 pounds in one year and another 50 over the next year. All of the indicators that were high and going up went down and have stayed low. I’m not an activist, but I highly recommend choosing this way of eating for the prevention and reversal of disease. It does take 2-3 weeks to adapt under nominal conditions, but definitely talk to a doctor about how a healthy vegan diet might help with your condition.
Taking a daily Vitamin D3 supplement (2000 IU) had such enormous and immediate impact on my post-stress and moodiness I’d have to consider it a lightning cure. As a vegan I also take a daily 1000mg B12* (cobalamin) supplement, but even omnivores can be deficient so I’d recommend taking that as well. At literally pennies a day these two are among the cheapest supplements you can buy.
*It is important to look for “cyanocobalamin” B12, which absorbs far better than “methylcobalamin”. Tablets that dissolve under the tongue (sublingual) are what I look for. You could also take a 2000mg B12 weekly. I think the daily recommendation is 250mg.
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Post by roadsdiverged on Dec 2, 2019 18:49:47 GMT -5
I'll look into vitamins, and I'm sure I'm overdue for some fresh bloodwork. You're talking to the wrong guy about becoming vegan though  I love meat. I do appreciate the insight and information though. I've heard from a few others that a change in diet could greatly benefit... but I'm not to that point right now. My stuff is more or less "situational,"and this situation isnt an easy one. Thank you Walt, I'm glad you see me for who I am, recognize the hell I've been through, and see what it's turned me into. With every challenge in life I grow stronger. So, in the end, I'm going to be a better person for myself and my kids. |
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Post by bouwser on Dec 2, 2019 20:10:43 GMT -5
Sending thoughts of peace and light your way.
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Post by LSUTigersFan on Dec 2, 2019 20:12:10 GMT -5
Take care Josh and the best of luck!! We'll be here if/when you need!
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Post by sparks on Dec 4, 2019 7:00:13 GMT -5
Josh, the only thing I really wish for every Christmas is for the people I know and care about to be happy and healthy. Adding you to my list. Hang in there.
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Post by roadsdiverged on Dec 4, 2019 7:58:04 GMT -5
Thanks again all. Things are "stable" and moving along. Still a long way to go.
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Post by isett2860 on Dec 4, 2019 15:01:52 GMT -5
Glad to see you checking in.
Sometimes seeing your mug in the morning is a better jolt than coffee! 😝
Happy to hear thing are going better. Chin up, you got this.
As many have said. We are all here be it virtually for you.
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Post by oldcajun123 on Dec 4, 2019 15:27:48 GMT -5
 Seeing you post makes my day. Don’t be a stranger.
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Post by instymp on Dec 4, 2019 18:13:57 GMT -5
Best to you, glad you are getting help.
Hang in there.
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Post by toshtego on Dec 4, 2019 19:38:01 GMT -5
Ditto on glad you are checking in.
Keep on. You can do it.
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Post by Low and Slow on Dec 4, 2019 22:53:47 GMT -5
PM'd you before reading this. Hang in there man, hope the situation gets situated!
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Post by sperrytops on Dec 6, 2019 12:54:56 GMT -5
Josh, glad you are keeping up the posts and letting us know where you are at.
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Post by pepesdad1 on Dec 6, 2019 13:08:30 GMT -5
See!!!! you are really well thought of...everyone who knows you, knows and appreciates the kind of man you are....a standup man and serious about your responsibilities...that is you in a nut shell
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Post by roadsdiverged on Dec 12, 2019 7:37:37 GMT -5
Today is 2 1/2 years sober. These 2 1/2 years have been the hardest years of my life, a lot has went on. But here I am, still trucking along.
I'll have a good cigar and at least one pipeful of one of my "rare" tobaccos this afternoon.
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Post by oldcajun123 on Dec 12, 2019 7:44:05 GMT -5
Good to hear from you, You Da Man, seriously it makes me feel good that you’re keep on keeping on.
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Post by roadsdiverged on Dec 12, 2019 10:14:33 GMT -5
I'll probably be back more. I've made up my mind on what I'm doing.
I cant deal with this anymore.
Edit: it's not that I "can't," it's that I wont.
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Post by toshtego on Dec 12, 2019 12:10:28 GMT -5
Good to hear from you, Josh.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 12, 2019 12:50:39 GMT -5
Congratuations on 2.5 years, Josh. Well done. Hope your situation improves.
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Post by Legend Lover on Dec 12, 2019 13:41:01 GMT -5
I'll probably be back more. I've made up my mind on what I'm doing. I cant deal with this anymore. Edit: it's not that I "can't," it's that I wont. good to know you'll be back more. Also good to see it seems you've got some clarity. |
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Post by roadsdiverged on Dec 12, 2019 14:25:39 GMT -5
Clarity is, I've came too far to be feeling this miserable. I blame no one but myself for that because I held on when I should have let go.
'Tis life.
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Post by just ol ed on Dec 12, 2019 15:54:53 GMT -5
just adding my good thoughts for continued success in "coming back" from problems. Been there/done that waaaay back "in the day".
Enjoy the upcoming holiday with family
(really old)Ed Duncan, Batavia, NY
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Post by pepesdad1 on Dec 12, 2019 16:05:25 GMT -5
I'll probably be back more. I've made up my mind on what I'm doing. I cant deal with this anymore. Edit: it's not that I "can't," it's that I wont.pm me with details, if I can be of help. |
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Post by roadsdiverged on Dec 12, 2019 19:33:01 GMT -5
I'll email you in a bit. Getting kids to sleep
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Post by scrooge on Dec 12, 2019 20:22:48 GMT -5
Hang in there Josh. Good to see you posting when you can. Just remember what I said.
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I love meat. I do appreciate the insight and information though. I've heard from a few others that a change in diet could greatly benefit... but I'm not to that point right now. My stuff is more or less "situational,"and this situation isnt an easy one.
Seeing you post makes my day. Don’t be a stranger.
